Monday, December 23, 2013

Traditional gender roles???

Okay, so this was too much for me to handle tonight, received this email today and haven't gotten back on the dating site again for the night.

I mean, at least this guy was up front?  But I mean…..wow….

''How's it going?  I asked Jdate to find me the cutest girl here who I'm compatible with, and your profile appeared. There aren't too many cute girls here who appreciate traditional gender roles, but from your profile I get the feeling that you do so I thought I'd write and say "hi".

From your profile I gather you're fun, friendly, and attractive. As for me, my profile is a thinly veiled front to communicate that I'm a Dominate man who is looking for a submissive woman for a committed relationship with a kinky side, so I'm hoping that you appreciate a confident, dominate kind of guy who takes charge in a relationship.

The important question is, does knowing that make you less interested in me, or more? If more interested, then I hope to hear back from you and hope that we can get to know each other better and find out if we're a match. If not, no harm done and I wish you luck in finding what your looking for.

Warmly,
*John Doe*"

First off let me just say I responded and was nice but had to set him straight that I am NOT the kind of woman who would just sit back and let a man RUN my life, and that I'm looking for an EQUAL.

Okay, so now that I've gotten all that out, an email with the word Dominate man has to be capitalized? Why? Also, ANY women out there--DO NOT LET A MAN RUN YOUR LIFE. Partner's SHOULD be equals.  Someone who tells you where to go and what you can do is NOT a healthy relationship in my mind.

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