Stage 5 Clinger?
Now, I'm always open to someone that may not live in the same state as me, however, I am leary because of a past long distance relationship.
BUT--I began to speak with someone and got to know them, and we began to text a few times as well….fast-forward to later in the evening this guy [who is in his early 30s mind you] begins to get a little over the top.
I kid you not, I cannot make these things up.
He's overly sensitive, and when we both disagreed about something, said that we had our first fight….WE AREN'T DATING DUDE!
Secondly, he admitted that he's overly sensitive and honestly if you ask me [and possibly my girlfriend who is studied psychology] a bit bipolar.
Yesterday I even received a text that was ''good morning babe'' [barf] I'm not your ''babe'' we are NOT boyfriend/girlfriend, and after I nicely stated that I'm not anyone's ''babe'' I would prefer NOT to be called that, especially when NOT in a serious relationship nor even dating the person.
[This has only been after 2 days of speaking and getting to know each other]
Needless to say, I've cut off the communication since it doesn't seem like we are on the same page--and since I can't handle a guy who has such major ups and downs and ''all arounds''.
**out of respect, i'm not detailing everything stated in conversations with some of these guys, I am not out to make them bad guys, and also know that not everything that is exchanged [as far as texts or messages are posted in full**
On another note, I have a date tonight with someone here in the city. I plan to go and just have a nice time and relax and enjoy conversation.
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