Hiatus and a LONG overdue post

There have been many many things going on and I haven't had the chance to post--and let me tell you--the things I have to say regarding some of the men not only I have come across, but recently a friend had come across just makes me really worry for the male gender.


First off, I am under the impression that after a great first date and an even better second date with NO inkling of it being uncomfortable or no chemistry between the two people--that a third date wouldn't be out of the question.  I was apparently wrong--the day after a second date which seemed to go great [which maybe my clues to the dates me almost TOO perfect should mean something?] I mentioned us getting together later in the week and in returned got responded to with ''I think we're on different wavelengths…etc…but these last two dates were nice."
Uhhhh……sorry what? Did I miss something….if you weren't interested why the second date, which NO hint that you weren't interested…

Oh well.  Thank you men of Chicago to whom I've met, the good ones who have shown me some qualities that I will continue to look for in a partner, and the bad ones who have shown me that being single is actually way better than dealing with stupid shit.

Speaking of shit--this leads me to another little problem--men who can't grow a pair of balls and lead someone on with good conversations and phone calls and then setting up a date with a great girl [who I can vouch for because she's an AMAZING person and an even better friend!] and in turn…..NOT FUCKING SHOWING UP AT ALL….I am at a loss for words….although it's his loss in the end.

WHAT THE HELL MEN, THOSE OF YOU WHO SCREW OVER AWESOME WOMEN--I HOPE KARMA BITES YOU IN THE BUTT


*ahem* I'll compose myself now…


Another thing, understandably in the age of online dating/online meetings/etc. I guess some people [not just pinning you men--women too] find it ''better'' to end a relationship/meet-up/dating with an email or text.
After a dinner with a girlfriend--we both agreed that men and woman alike, should be able to handle that face to face, there are polite ways to say that you aren't interested or that you don't want a relationship, but for heavens sake! Do it face to face [IMPORTANT NOTE: DO NOT DO IT THIS
WAY: http://sexinthe2ndcity.blogspot.com/2014/02/sorrywhat.html]


Anyway, that's all for now.

xoxo