Dates

This is a good subject…

When planning a date or going ON a date…

My client at the salon the other day said she had something to add to the blog, she was going on a date later that evening--a Friday night, the weather was pretty nice while the sun was still up and my client tells me that the guy has picked a rooftop [you think…YAY fun!!] and then she tells me that it's some popular rooftop bar that turns slightly club like in downtown [you now think…eehh okay no problem…]
Next, instead of setting up to meet at a happy hour [early enough that the weather is still awesome, and the rooftop isn't jam packed yet--a place where YOU CAN TALK] this man decided to make the time 8pm…

I just [and whoever else feels this way] don't understand planning a date for a FIRST DATE at a bar/lounge that doesn't allow you to talk or get to know the other person. When you have to yell across the table at each other because your date picked a restaurant/bar that has live music at a certain time [which i LOVE--but couldn't we meet earlier and THEN stay to listen to the music?] is just seems inconvenient and it sort of makes me wonder why you picked the place…do you NOT want talk much? Or in the case of my client--does he want to have it late enough that if he doesn't like her, he can stay and pick up some sloppy club-goer after?

That's all for today.
xoxo