Friday, April 8, 2016

Thoughts…lots of thoughts

I was watching an old Sex in the City [thanks Carrie, Miranda, Samantha and Charlotte] because SO much of those shows and ''inner monologues'' hold true to any woman [and man maybe…].
One in which Carrie was dating one of her many men--and spoke to when things happen with a new person of interest that sometimes we, as women mainly, question EVERYTHING afterward.

I hadn't updated for a bit, but recently had been going out with someone who was SO outside of what I ever said I'd date--but enjoyed every moment that I spent getting to know this guy. We had conversations that, as I explained to a girlfriend, were real adult/intellectual conversations.

WOW what a nice change!! 

Recently, there's been nothing….no talking, no text, no information just Poof nothing. As I told my sister in law, my track record seems intact. 
It sucks.
Dating is rough.
What the hell happened?
Why this, Why that, blah blah blah…..

All of that pops into your head. 

[edit] Thanks to twitter, and posting without expecting a response--Patti Stanger, aka millionaire matchmaker, tweeted back with the response that ''dating other women. NEXT! 
HAHA, love her. And yes, I am moving on.


I feel like meeting people gets harder and harder. I'm not the only person who feels this way--My friend who we will call "C'' has been in the same boat.
Recently, when she went on a date--the guy said things that seemed as though he should have been joking--yet wasn't--even if it were jokingly sometimes those things don't come across that way.
On top of that lousy date for her--she recently had a guy on a dating app who legit made the most HORRIFIC comment [at least to me, C usually has her quick comebacks for people].
"C" has a wheelchair, or she uses her crutches…she's beautiful, quirky and quick-witted, and the things that I know men…MEN [not even boys!] say in a ''getting to know you'' [?] are fucking ridiculous!?! Where the hell is your common sense?!?! Let alone it shows NO dignity, I guess it's more of a way for us to say ''thank you for showing me yourself so I don't have to go through meeting you or dating you''

So, such is life currently…Single….attempting to date [HA!]

Until next time. 

Signing out.