Does this happen to you?

So I've lagged….I have had all these thoughts in my head of what I wanted to write, and I still have them jumbled up there in my brain, but it took a little while for my to get myself going.

Blog life is almost as rough as dating! Haha, but I love it, and I do it for the entertainment for friends, other single ladies, and well….for my sanity.

So, to begin, the title of this post doesn't make much sense, but stay with me here--it's more of a have you ever felt this way?
Over the years I seem to notice that the guys I've either REALLY liked and it didn't work out, or the guys who just didn't work out from the get go and I wasn't feeling--I seem to have this notion that after a guy has dated me/gone out with me/etc…they end up finding their 'soul mate'  [ugh, yuck, barf hate using the word] or their ''miss right'' [ugh stupid play on ''mr right'' insert intense eye roll now!]

Okay okay, keep reading--I know that it's more likely due to the fact [especially the ones whom which you were really feeling] that you notice those things, but the ones that even on my end, I wasn't feeling.

HEAR YE, HEAR YE, IF YOU WANT A SOLID RELATIONSHIP THAT MIGHT LEAD TO LONG TERM/MARRIAGE DATE ALLY, YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT GAL AFTER YOU MEET HER.

Is this something that anyone else notices? Is this something that we just see in our own eyes? 
It isn't bad, but if you let it consume you--then you need to take a step back and just look at yourself. I look back at those people who didn't work out--and I'm happy for them, and in turn happy that it went the direction it did.

But damn. It sucks. Especially when one in particular is married….but ladies, we all know that we've said it….''DAMN I LOOK A HELL OF A LOT CUTER THAN HER''

Dating is rough...

I find that as I get older, dating gets harder, isn't that fun!?

I have a career that doesn't quite lend itself to meeting anyone--apart from the one or two men that come in to get their hair done, and even then, they are usually coming in to see me because their girlfriend gets their hair done at our salon.

Going out to bars isn't on my top priority list, and when I do have a night out with girlfriends the pickings at the bar are pretty slim.

So, back to the world of internet dating…and jokingly [yet seriously] letting friends know that if they know someone decent to set me up.

Back to the internet/app dating pools, here's what I find funny: you swipe/like/match with someone and as soon as you attempt communication, they seem to have NO interest in chatting.
Or you get someone interested in having a decent conversation only to have it turn into ''man'' brained conversations [I'll let you figure that one out…it's not hard]

I talked to my brother recently over the phone, and he asked me how dating was going--which I responded with a huge laugh which is the best way I can seem to express my time with dating.  Joking--he said I should let him have reign to write one of my profiles, I am whole heartily OK with that at this point and time--plus I'm going to let him have free reign on the most ridiculous dating site so if it's something I don't agree with, it's at least on a site that I already think is a joke. If not, and it works out [which I have full trust in my brother] then I might just copy and paste it to another.

Yes. I am on more than one, the men do it, why not me? It's all the same people anyway--which also makes me laugh because it seems to lessen the pool even more.


Until next time…..